Dating Apps

10 phrases · Malay with romanization, English and audio

  1. Profil awak sangat menarik perhatian saya.

    Your profile caught my attention.

    Usage

    Opening message on a dating app after matching

    Grammar Note

    "Menarik perhatian" = "attract" + "attention," a common phrase meaning to catch someone's eye or interest.

  2. Apakah hobi awak?

    What are your hobbies?

    Usage

    Asking about a match's hobbies to start a conversation

    Grammar Note

    "Apakah" = "apa" (what) + "-kah" (question emphasiser). "Hobi" is a loanword from English "hobby."

  3. Saya suka cara awak senyum dalam gambar itu.

    I love the way you smile in that photo.

    Usage

    Complimenting someone's smile in their profile photo

    Grammar Note

    "Cara awak senyum" = "the way you smile." The pattern "cara + subject + verb" forms a noun phrase meaning "the way someone does something."

  4. Kita ada banyak persamaan.

    We have a lot in common.

    Usage

    Noting shared interests or values with a match

    Grammar Note

    "Persamaan" uses the circumfix "per-...-an" on "sama" (same), creating a noun meaning "similarities/things in common."

  5. Boleh kita jumpa secara bersemuka?

    Can we meet in person?

    Usage

    Suggesting a face-to-face meeting after chatting on an app

    Grammar Note

    "Secara" is an adverbial preposition meaning "in a manner of." "Bersemuka" = "ber-" (mutual) + "semuka" (face-to-face).

  6. Awak dari mana asalnya?

    Where are you from originally?

    Usage

    A classic conversation starter asking about someone's hometown

    Grammar Note

    "Asal" (origin) + "-nya" (emphatic suffix) = "asalnya" (originally). "Dari mana asalnya?" is the standard polite question about origin.

  7. Saya tertarik dengan keperibadian awak.

    I'm attracted to your personality.

    Usage

    Expressing attraction to someone's inner qualities, not just looks

    Grammar Note

    The "ter-" prefix indicates unintentional or spontaneous actions/states. "Tertarik" = "drawn to / attracted involuntarily."

  8. Boleh awak kongsikan nombor WhatsApp?

    Could you share your WhatsApp number?

    Usage

    Requesting someone's WhatsApp number to move conversation off the app

    Grammar Note

    "Kongsi" (share) + "-kan" (applicative/transitive suffix) = "kongsikan" (to share something with someone). The request itself is carried by "Boleh ...?". WhatsApp is the dominant messaging app in Malaysia.

  9. Saya rasa kita sangat serasi.

    I think we are very compatible.

    Usage

    Expressing that you feel well-matched with someone

    Grammar Note

    "Serasi" is a native Malay word for harmony/compatibility. The "se-" prefix often means "same" or "together," suggesting a matching state.

  10. Awak jenis orang yang saya cari.

    You are the type of person I've been looking for.

    Usage

    Expressing that someone matches what you've been looking for in a partner

    Grammar Note

    Malay uses "yang" as a relativiser. "Orang yang saya cari" = "the person (yang) I am looking for" — the "yang" links the noun to its modifier clause.

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